Dec 9, 2009

Pondering the Pons (and a little fun too)

First of all, THANK YOU to everyone who posted such kind, encouraging, informative and inspiring comments! I am a bit emotional right now, and I think I cried over every one! I was so happy to learn that I have some people, whom I didn't know, following our blog since its inception. It is nice to "meet" you. ;) Also, there are some very sweet "friends" of this blog (thank you, Emily) whom always leave such sweet comments but I can't return the favor because they don't have their own blogs. I want you to know that I appreciate you all! And thanks Katie for being one of my closest sojourners in real life and now in blog life too!

We are now in week four of Brain Highways. We have been in San Diego for over a month. I met a father and son last week who are enrolled in the BH program who commute two hours ONE WAY twice a week to attend. We obviously aren't the only family who believes in this program. The part of the brain that we are in the process of "reorganinzing" is the pons. The pons is responsible for most of our automatic reflexes. This is also our "fight or flight" response system. This is how a baby survives. As a baby develops, if proper neurological work is done, the pons takes a back seat to the cortex, the part of the brain responsible for cognitive thinking. If our pons is underdeveloped, any "perceived" threat (a change in routine, transitions, homework, a math test etc. . .) can send a child into fight or flight. These fight or flight responses could result in tantrums, avoidance, unreasonable fears, excuses, etc. . . At BH, they refer to the pons as the "baby brain." As long as the "baby brain" is in charge, life will be much more difficult. It is almost impossible to reason with a "baby brain" no matter the person's chronological age.

To develop the pons, students spend LOTS of time on the floor, and specifically, on their bellies just like babies do or should do. The most important aspect of pons developement is called creeping. Students must creep on the floor using their arms and legs without lifting their chest or belly. I have tried it and it is hard work. Sloan is required to creep for a minimum of 30 minutes a day. When I get home and have all of my proper equipment, I'm going to post a video of him creeping. We try to incorporate fun, food and games to help the time go by. Some days, Sloan creep-creeps away. Other days, I want to pull my hair out because it is such a fight to get the creeping done. My poor friend, Katie came to visit and witnessed creeping on a very bad day. Today we played tic-tac-toe while he creeped and it went great. We have 20 minutes down and 10 more to go. After 12 hours of creeping, we do our first evaluation of any progress made. The pons is supposed to be developed after approximately 150-300 hours of creeping, depending on its underdevelopment. OUCH! Sloan is thought to have a very underdeveloped pons so we are in for a long haul. Double ouch!!

In between all of our creeping, here are a few fun things that we have done these couple of weeks:

S and K Hornblower
A harbor cruise on the ole' Lord Hornblower

S and K

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S cruising

Katie and Sloan
A quick, but cherished, visit from "Auntie" Katie

Rain house
A delightful trip to the New Children's Museum. An urban museum with a complete hands-on approach to art. I took LOTS of pics. This is the "Rain House"
K painting
Kensie painting a large, metal whale
Bubble machine
Bubbles of all shapes and sizes

S at museum
Sloan trying out a local inventor's mobile invention
Art time
An art project at the musueum
S building
Building. . .
K rock climbing
Even rock climbing. What a wonderful experience entirely dedicated to children!
And the child in all of us. . . ;)
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S and K Scripps

Studying marine life at Scripps Aquarium
S with eels
Sloan modeling with the California Moray

And the reason why we get to have a little fun in between the hard work. Here is a picture of the infamous creeping:
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As we ponder our pons, and have a little fun while we're at it, we hope you will join us in pondering our blessings this CHRISTmas season! Hope yours is off to a merry start!

7 comments:

Half Gaelic, Half Garlic! said...

Hi Trish,

I am happy to hear that things are going well for Sloan......it sounds like an incredible program. A lot of work......but I am sure that hard work will pay off!!

Glad that you are able to fit in some fun too! Love all the pics....especially the ones at tha Urban Museum....how cool is that place??

Wishing you and your beautiful family a very Merry Christmas!

xo,

Lisa

Michelle said...

Oh, Tisha, 150 - 300 hours... 30 minutes at a time?!? Double WOW!! Never in my 39 years have I known I had a pons, so you are definitely teaching me something new.

What great pictures from your trip to the kids' museum. I had to laugh, because the girl sitting behind the kids doing the art project looks like Kara. That is her profile! Sloan and Kensie look like they had a blast with all their hands-on experiences. Glad you are getting some good quality family time during this whole experience. It sure beats four hours in a car/day!

Michelle Krueger said...

Hi Tisha-
Please tell Sloan that Mr. Krueger and I really miss having him in our first grade class at The Well. We always enjoyed his sweet, kind heart, and his big smile.
I don't know you that well... but from reading some of your posts; you seem like such a wonderful mommy to the children the Lord has given you. The Lord makes no mistakes in the children that He gives us.
Isaiah 40:11- "He tends His flock like a shepherd; He gathers the lambs in His arms and carries them close to His heart; He gently leads those that have young."
Praying for your time away.
Love, Michelle (Mrs. Krueger)

lauroge said...

Hi: I was wondering if you could let me know how things are going at "Brain Highways". My friend and I, were thinking about signing up our boys now or in the next session. Could you offer any information to help us decide?

Jenetta said...

Hi Tisha-

Came across your blog an accident while I was doing some research.

We just went to BH last night for our 5 year old adopted daughter.

I would love to talk with you about your experiences- since you should have just finished up the program.

Would you mind emailing me. I would appreciate it so much!!

jenetta
jen at frugalfreebiesanddeals dot com

Dr. Love said...

Hi,
I was wondering how things went with the BH class. I'm currently enrolled and have been wondering what other parents have experienced since completing the course. Thank!
Mom of a "creeper" from Carlsbad

Mark Fidelman said...

Can you post an update to how you percieved the class's benefits to your son?